Your Falling in Love and Lost Who You Were Most midlife professionals reach a point where they've done everything right — built a career, earned respect, hit their goals. Then they fall in love and somewhere along the way, they stop recognizing the person in the mirror. The identity shift in relationships isn't a flaw in you. It's how your brain's operating system responds to emotional attachment. In this video, I break down the neuroscience of why we dissolve into our partne