Creating The Boundary. Is the Person an [Asset] [Risk, Threat or Liability]? Before determining if someone or something is an asset you need understand the elements and properties of who that person is, who there not, can they be trusted and do they have your best interest or their own? Assets grow in value, liabilities decrease in value. Its common behavior to respond or give out personal information to strangers. Self-Regulation is an internal governor where you add a delay

How school trained you to filter every thought through an authority figure. In school children give up there agency and ability to make sound decisions without filtering [Repetition-Learned Behavior] and pass there beliefs and thoughts though their teacher, first. The raising of the hand signals is my action, desire, or need OK, [Approval] can I proceed, [Approval] can I use the bathroom... [Approval] Will you judge me if ... [Acceptance] Acceptance [Consequences-Outcast?]

When someone challenges your character, realize that your composure and authority aren't just traits—they are the signals that dictate the social environment. Overriding a conflict without performing or reacting Reacting emotionally triggers a threat response in the other person that you are a threat to their identity, control or safety. The moment you react and attempt to defend yourself. You raise your voice, just to try to prove them wrong or you start over explain yoursel

Explore the beautiful state of true self-awareness and how observing your own thinking can unlock endless possibilities in your career and life. First-Person (Internal Focus) : You’re only focus is your thoughts. In first-person, you are a character telling your own story. You react guessing what other people are thinking. Second-Person (External Focus): You focus on what people think, says and do. You listen, watch and acknowledge another person without personal opinions, em

Your life will always reflect who you believe yourself to be In a world saturated with external pressures and endless comparisons, understanding the profound connection between your reality and your identity is the ultimate act of self discovery. Your reality isn't just the facts of your life; it's the lens through which you perceive those facts, and this perception is built directly on who you believe yourself to be. --- VIIEGO | The Human Security Agency for Mid-Life Profes